Breaking the Cycle of Domestic Abuse & Healing the Harm of Relationship Violence

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Consulting expert, seasoned psychologist, speaker and domestic abuse advocate Dr. Jeanne King helps you recognize and stop domestic abuse at home and in court.

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Sometimes we reach out seeking remedy for spousal abuse only to go from the frying pan to the fire. Sound familiar?

Whether in the marriage counselor's office or in the legal counsel's office, domestic violence can get very messy on your way to resolving the conflicts inherent in domestic abuse.

Why? Let's look first at marital therapy.

Your marital therapist wants you to carry partial burden for the abuse ...for your partner's battering behavior. You've heard it: "What did you do to provoke his/her verbal or physical assault?"

Actually, you didn't. Battering is fully owned, operated and controlled by the battering partner and NO ONE ELSE.

However from the marital therapy perspective, responsibility for disharmony within the system (that is the relationship) is spread across the system.

But you know that you do not initiate verbal or physical assaults, nor are you in a position to stop them. So where do this leave you?

Frustrated and in greater danger.

Spreading the responsibility for the battering to you and your partner reinforces the abuse dynamic.

It explicitly and/or implicitly blames you for your partner's abusive behavior, and fails to promote your partner's personal accountability for his/her battering.

While this approach to the abuse problem in your relationship may keep you and your partner together, it does not--and cannot--end the battering. To the contrary, it exacerbates battering: emotional abuse, verbal abuse and physical abuse. WHY?

...Because, until an abuser is fully accountable for his/her battering behavior, domestic abuse continues.

AND until the abused partner, relinquishes responsibility for the perpetrator's actions, domestic abuse continues.

AND as domestic abuse continues, it goes in one direction: it gets worse.

What help that helps you remedy your troubles?

We bring over 25 years of professional expertise in counseling and a deep appreciation for the inner experience of living in an abusive relationship.

Whether you wish to interrupt the dynamics of battering in your relationship, or long to heal the inner bruises of being in one, you can break the cycle of abuse through individual personal counseling.

Doors open, harm heals and your emotional and physical health will return for you to reclaim.

Need Specialized Help with Systemic Abuse? It's here too...

Due to the dynamics of battering, survivors frequently encounter going through the roughest tides in route to safety for themselves and their children. We see this when intimate partner abusers use the system in their efforts to control their victims.

We help domestic abuse survivors recognize, understand and block the common and customary tactics abusers use in family court to maintain control over the family.

We know the strategic ploys, how they serve the perpetrator and how they impact the victimized partner.

More often then not, women lose their children, their "sanity" status and/or their criminal-free record because they don’t know what’s being done until it’s so far progressed that is it irreversible or close to it.

70% of men seeking custody get it AND 50% of those that do obtain custody are documented abusers.

If divorce is eminent...

If you are going through a divorce...

If you are in a custody dispute or anticipating one...

If you're struggling with internal conflict and mixed emotions...

If you feel overwhelmed and physically, mentally or emotionally taxed...

If your health is compromised by the excessive stress and you need help regaining your strength, stamina and mental clarity...

If the legal language, pleadings and court procedures confuse, puzzle and mystify you...

If you sense systemic abuse...

If you want someone working with you to protect your interests and your personal assets, including your mental health status, criminal-free record and your parental rights...

THEN you are in the right place.

You will get help seeing the battering dynamic if and as it emerges …in your spouse and/or in your partner's counsel.

You will get help finding your own answers as to which path you wish to take …to stay with your partner or to exit the relationship.

Your best interest in either direction you take on ALL issues will be supported.

You will get assistance in maintaining and/or regaining your psychological and emotional health and well-being.

You will get help in regulating stress symptoms and chronic medical conditions that are wearing you down and even being used against you.

You will receive help in understanding your rights, how to protect your rights, exercise your rights, and recognize when and if your rights are in jeopardy or are being compromised.

You will get help in identifying the efforts of opposing counsel to campaign your partner's case at your expense AND...

You will learn how to separate opposing counsel's strategic positioning from who and what you are in your own eyes, as well as in the eyes of those judging.

You will learn all of the essential measures to insure your safety exiting domestic violence at home.

You will heal the harm and your life will carry on with integrity and promise for you and yours.

If you need professional help in identifying or stopping domestic violence, it's not an accident that you found this website. We can help.

Schedule a telephone consultation and take your first step to ending the cycle of abuse at home or in court.

SPECIAL OFFER

We want you to have the opportunity to get help should you need it. To help you get started, we are extending a discount for your initial consultation at 35% off our already low survivor rate for our base consulting fees.

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Your payment of $97 reserves your introductory session. Upon checking out, please leave us the best number to reach you and best time of day. We will give you the first available appointment that works in your schedule.

You are in route to...

interrupting the battering dynamics, between you and your perpetrator, and between you and those he/she engages

protecting your rights, yourself and your children in route to safety

reclaiming your life, regain wholeness and re-establish well-being

 

Please Note: If you are using your health insurance for your care with Dr. King, we will provide you with the necessary information to process your insurance re-imbursement.

As a healthcare provider, please know we use utmost discretion to insure your confidentiality.

We appreciate your confidence in giving us the opportunity to serve you and contribute to your growth and well-being.

Case Studies: Due to the highly personal work we do with individuals in high conflict divorces and domestic abuse cases, we do not post case studies on the internet. However, we can provide this for you in the event you want to see how we have helped other individuals.

Contact us directly by email at contact us and request any of the following case studies:

  • Domestic Abuse, Divorce and Child Custody
  • Domestic Violence in Same Sex Couple
  • Insomnia and Stress
  • Panic Disorders and Insomnia
  • Migraine Headaches
  • Chronic Pain, Fibromyalgia and Arthritis
  • Chronic Fatigue, Vertigo, Tension Headaches and Neck Pain

Dr. Jeanne King is a licensed clinical psychologist, specializing is the treatment of stress-related illness and relationship abuse issues pertaining to survivor safety and recovery. Dr. King has devoted her career to helping domestic abuse survivors regain their health, happiness and well-being.

Let us know if we can help you navigate the system and regain your health and well-being in the process or any time thereafter.

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